Why are African Americans so hard to interact with on a personal level?

Young man you are Stereo typing a whole group of people and this is offensive. We all have different "traditional" ways in which we grew up. a woman likes a man for who he is Not what color he is. I have 3 children that are half black half white and they have had to fight Identity all their lives. Lets get with it. Be who you are. Society rules are not Mans rules. association or assimilation??? That is the question